Cum for Me, Baby...Porn as Sexual Education

“Men are very goal-oriented. They believe in the hereafter. An orgasm is what they are here after.” Alan Altman

Dagny’s Entry [October 26, 2009]

Pornography. We need to talk about this because it’s both alleviating and creating problems for men and women. Now, I’m not going to get into the moral issues surrounding porn, if you want to debate the morality of porn we can do that another day. And don’t get me wrong, when I talk about pornography, I am talking about sex between consenting adults. Period.

The proliferation of pornography on the internet has meant that more and more people have access to it on a daily basis, and it’s being used as a kind of educational tool in many ways. Men and women who have not had sex, don’t know how to have sex, or want new sexual avenues to explore are accessing web-based porn as a means of learning what they don’t know. And this is great! YouPorn offers all kinds of free clips and movies — everything from professionally filmed stories to amateur home videos. These offerings can go a long way in teaching individuals about the act of sex, and in opening up new possibilities for sexual exploration. However, there is one thing that really bothers me about most of these videos — the men always orgasm,and the women rarely do.

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